User blog comment:PoisonIvy100/Feelings about Amber Millington/@comment-3553378-20120915003808/@comment-5582076-20120925032900

Yes, she can be kind of narcissist and rude sometimes, but I truly believe it's because in the very bottom, she doesn't feel like what she seems to be. Her rudeness to Joy and Fabian comes from her loyalty to Nina, her BAF, the only person in the house (besides Alfie) that makes her feel sure of herself. Most of her housemates put up with her Amber-ness, and I think there's a point where that bothers her. And with Alfie, well, she was harsh sometimes, but there were times she was really nice to him. In S1, when she gave him the good luck kiss, or when she (along with Patricia) was trying to convince Nina to let Alfie join Sibuna. She really likes Alfie, but she doesn't want to admit it, because she is used to get everyting waht she wants, and Alfie was who was chasing her :)

Plus, she and Joy could understand eachother because both of them know the feeling of never being chosen...