User blog comment:HOA2012/October Vent Blog/@comment-4816103-20131005001208/@comment-4816103-20131005002234

I also hate how a lot of time when someone is upset I feel like I should help them but I just don't know what to say so I just hang out in silence unsure what to do.

I hate how when bad things happen and I know I should feel really bad for people involved, I just can't. I mean, I feel bad, but at the same time part of me just doesn't react. Like when my neighbor's house burned down- everyone else was really upset while I personally, though knowing it was horrible and being really sad for my neighbors because they are great people, I just couldn't bring myself to actually FEEL bad. You know what I mean? It stinks, because I feel guilty about not being able to summon the same amount of empathy even though I want to.