User blog comment:Cdragon13/January Vent Blog/@comment-24596535-20150101203820/@comment-4816103-20150101211300

It goes both ways and it's horrible for everyone. Like, it's supposed to be a surprise if the girl is tough or something and she usually has a background to explain it (in fiction, I mean) while for males, it's the way things are expected to be... Yeah.

Gender expectations really, really suck.