User blog comment:HOA2012/October Vent Blog/@comment-4816103-20131027012550

I hate that all the drama happens when I'm not here. Not because I like drama- but because I always feel a little bad when I wasn't there to deal with it as it happened and instead had to hear from others what happened and then it just gets stressful because I feel like I would have been more help if I was actually there at the time, rather than not be there, and let the drama grow bigger with nobdoy to stop it.