User blog comment:Corbierr/Let's brainstorm (Click, mortals)/@comment-24015178-20140208144904/@comment-4816103-20140208152451

And by the way, I definitely don't blame the people in chat for this drama, because I know for a fact it's usually just the result of some small little disagreement or random problem got out of hand, and that's all this blog is trying to prevent. You also have a good point about the PM idea ; in some cases, however, getting other people involved is what will make it worse. I guess, it depends on the situation. If it's just a little disagreement that could probably be ended with a peaceful discussion, PM works fine. If the person is actually harassing you, yes, get help. Although this also goes along with another solution of alerting an admin or mod asap, rather than waiting for it to get worse. (not directing that towards you of course, just a general statement.)

Again, sorry for accidently hurting your feelings. I wouldn't have chosen the scinerio I did if I knew you'd take it like you did.